(NOTE: Statements in this talk have been challenged by scientists working in this field. Please read "Corrections & Updates" below for more details.) Psychologist Philip Zimbardo asks, "Why are boys struggling?" He shares some stats (lower graduation rates, greater worries about intimacy and relationships) and suggests a few reasons -- and challenges the TED community to think about solutions.

Philip Zimbardo: The demise of guys?

The demise of guys?

Boys now lag behind girls in education, with a 30% higher dropout rate and a significant underrepresentation in grad programs.

A rise in social awkwardness among males points to a deeper issue: excessive internet, gaming, and porn rewiring young minds.

The digital dilemma: Boys' preference for arousal addiction over real-world interactions disrupts learning and social bonds.

Boys are falling behind academically, with dropout rates 30 percent higher than those of girls and a widening gap in college attainment. Many now struggle with shyness, social awkwardness, and intimacy, reporting preference for online worlds over real-life relationships. By age 21, the average boy has spent 10,000 hours gaming, often in isolation, and watches dozens of porn clips weekly. These patterns may be rewiring their brains for novelty and excitement, making it harder to connect in traditional classrooms and relationships.